Young Love advice needed

[Cyclman]

If you're not sure, to finish things, heat things up with a diacetyl rest, then swirl gently.

Hey, if the first lady has an issue, oh well. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

 

[grrickar]

Do it. Nothing ventured nothing gained. Ask any guy about the one that got away. Woulda-shoulda-coulda...

If nothing else, if may make the original girl insanely jealous, and that may come back to you in a good way.

 

[boomslang]

Do it. Nothing ventured nothing gained. Ask any guy about the one that got away. Woulda-shoulda-coulda...

If nothing else, if may make the original girl insanely jealous, and that may come back to you in a good way.

Cheers man, im just afraid it'll get back to the first girl and she wont talk back because of a moral grey area. You get me?

 

[JonM]

Stop overthinking it. Just go.

 

[Hoppity]

Ask the 1st one for her permission to pursue the other. You win with either answer.

 

[cattmoble]

Easier to ask forgiveness than permission

 

[agrazela]

I don't regret any of the things I've done in my life. Only the things I didn't do.
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(And if you sub the word "women" for the word "things" in the above statement, it is also accurate)

 

[grrickar]

Cheers man, im just afraid it'll get back to the first girl and she wont talk back because of a moral grey area. You get me?

Ask her if she would be cool with it. If she has an issue, then she likely has interest in you that way. If not, then she isn't a very good friend anyway - she doesn't want a relationship with you but does not want you courting her friend either. Pretty selfish if that is the case.

Honestly I am too old for games people play. I'd take the 'nuclear' option and pursue the friend. If she is not cool with it, ask her why after the fact. Don't let what probably won't be (based on previous experience) block you from what might *could* be (based on observations with her friend)

 

[j1n]

[ame]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nuHfVn_cfHU[/ame]

 

[JonM]

Meanwhile, she and her friends are having some over analytical Sex and the City style discussion about why you haven't made a move yet. ("Guess he's not into you. Go out with that other guy.") Time's a-wastin', old chum.

 

[JonM]

And you said in the OP your feelings were requited. What more do you need?

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[Tin4]

asking a bunch of drunks about dating advice may not be a great idea. that said, if your feelings for the previous girl are not what they once were, chances are they will not work out. if this other girl is interested, you'll pawnch yourself in the berries if you never try.

I think you're wrong there. It's the fact we're all on CPUs that's the issue.

I forgot how to approach a women, so now I just walk up and say "Sup. You like that song Waterfalls?" as the last time I dated that was the in song.

I'm so alone...but I'm sticking to the rivers and the lakes that I'm used to.

That's a really good song.

 

[normonster]

Stay in your bedroom with xtube fired up and be self sufficient. You're a digital man now - embrace it. Love it. Spank it.

 

[Homercidal]

Most women can't resist a poet. All you need to do is find your inner Keats and express you love and frustration. Chicks dig a frustrated man more than ANYTHING!

Here's a sample of something that will make her insides quiver with desire:

In my heart the fires burning,
Choose my colour find a star.
Precious people always tell me
That's a step a step too far


Do you really want to hurt me?

Do you really want to make me cry?

(Don't forget to pack an "raincoat" when you share this beauty!)

 

[JonM]

There once was this cat from Nantucket ...
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[firerat]

In my heart the fires burning,
Choose my colour find a star.
Precious people always tell me
That's a step a step too far


Do you really want to hurt me?

Do you really want to make me cry?

I don't know what's worse, the fact you quoted this, or the fact that I know what it is.

 

[b-boy]

In my heart the fires burning,
Choose my colour find a star.
Precious people always tell me
That's a step a step too far


Do you really want to hurt me?

Do you really want to make me cry?

This will be stuck in my head for days now. Thanks for that!

 

[b-boy]

Easier to ask forgiveness than permission

I live my life by this statement... :rockin:

 

[flars]

Most women can't resist a poet. All you need to do is find your inner Keats and express you love and frustration. Chicks dig a frustrated man more than ANYTHING!

Here's a sample of something that will make her insides quiver with desire:

In my heart the fires burning,
Choose my colour find a star.
Precious people always tell me
That's a step a step too far


Do you really want to hurt me?

Do you really want to make me cry?

(Don't forget to pack an "raincoat" when you share this beauty!)

This has got to be satire.

 

[1977Brewer]

This has got to be satire.

Yes, because he suggested quoting Culture Club to woo a female.

 

[agrazela]

Yes, because he suggested quoting Culture Club to woo a female.

But women like culture.

They also like guys who are in a club, because that shows they are social beings, instead of the type of guy who'd sit alone in a dank basement for hours poring over a solitary hobby while drinking too much...

Hey, what kind of forum is this again?

 

[day_trippr]

I had pretty much lost all hope for this thread but it took a most entertaining turn.

Still think the OP needs to grow a pair though...

Cheers!

 

[Tin4]

Most women can't resist a poet. All you need to do is find your inner Keats and express you love and frustration. Chicks dig a frustrated man more than ANYTHING!

Here's a sample of something that will make her insides quiver with desire:

In my heart the fires burning,
Choose my colour find a star.
Precious people always tell me
That's a step a step too far


Do you really want to hurt me?

Do you really want to make me cry?

(Don't forget to pack an "raincoat" when you share this beauty!)

Are you guys having unseasonable rain too?

[ame]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qIxHb7cA6tg[/ame]

But women like culture.

They also like guys who are in a club, because that shows they are social beings, instead of the type of guy who'd sit alone in a dank basement for hours poring over a solitary hobby while drinking too much...

Hey, what kind of forum is this again?

It's whatever kind you want it to be baby.

A list of other things women like:

1.Eating
2.Drinking
3.Breathing
4.Talking at low levels from a distance
5. Guys with Binoculars

I had pretty much lost all hope for this thread but it took a most entertaining turn.

Still think the OP needs to grow a pair though...

Cheers!

Has that ever been a good thing? Like, Oh man look how big these are. Wow this hurts.

 

[jwalk4]

Hey everyone, I know this is a bit of a soppy post but id really appreciate some help on the matter.

Basically, last September, I met a girl in college (sixth form in the UK) and developed feelings for her over time. They were requited, but not as much as I'd have liked so we both essentially remained single even though I was a bit head over heels for her.

I wasn't treat very well by her but we remain awkward friends a year later. Now its all blown over, but theres still a fair amount of water under the bridge for us, im in a sticky situation.

She has a friend who is absolutely gorgeous, long legs, cute smile, the works. We even have the same taste as each other from what ive gathered and ive heard it through the grapevine that she finds me attractive.

I really want to get talking to her, but im feeling like I'm putting myself at risk of being turned down or embarrassed since she is friends with the first girl I mentioned.

Could anyone help me out with this? I'm not just trying to have sex with her either, I think we'd really hit it off. Do I go there or leave it as is.

Thanks chaps.

"Hey, listen. I know we've been doing the casual thing for a little while and it's been an absolute blast. But, I've been thinking lately about pursuing something a little bit more serious. I think we have a lot of fun and I'd like to try and step it up another level."

(Option 1: girl1 turns you down)
"*Laugh* Huh, I get it, thank you for being honest with me. So how about ... "insert stuff you normally talk about here..."

If she goes quiet and awkward, tell her "Look, I'm sorry I said anything. But there is no such thing as awkward situations, only people make things awkward, can we forget it happened?" <--- Gives her the upper hand, which, if she's a good chick, she'll return to normal.

Then go get the other girl. If the first girl comes up in conversation just be honest and say that "you were just looking for two different things."

If she's really into you, she'll pick you over her friend and brush her off as a ****.

(Option 2: girl1 says "yeah, I can do a serious thing")
Say "I was really hoping you'd say that," bring her in close and kiss her. Say that it feels way better with that out of the way.

 

[Dixon9717]

Go for it Bro....
if your rejected its not the end of the world just find a new pond to fish in. if all goes well then rejoice in your new happiness....
good luck my friend......

 

[ingchr1]

There once was this cat from Nantucket ...

Let's just say the stories about him are greatly exaggerated...

 

[ingchr1]

Kind of hard to give advise without photos of both these lasses.

 

[DrunkleJon]

Go after what you want. If you like the girl ask her out. If you still think the initial girl is your first choice, ask her. Worst that can happen is a no. I asked my sister in laws best friend out. Still working on that one. Worst thing that can happen is hearing no. Best is you find that perfect one.

 

[CreamyGoodness]

So, if I have this right, the other girl in question is an ex not-quite-girlfriend you had and that relationship kind of fizzled out, but without a whole hell of a lot of drama? If this is the case and I am correct, there are four people you aren't allowed to ask out, date, or boink out of respect for her feelings:

1) her sister
2) her mother
3) her brother (I don't know you very well... might be your thing)
4) her father (reference #3)

Even then #s 1 and 3 are iffy.

Notice that her friends and acquaintances aren't on that list of 4...

With that said, the woman you are interested might shoot you down out of loyalty to her friend, and if that is the case I'd just give it some time. Chances are she'll get the green light from her buddy eventually.

You can trust my advice on all matters... Im a complete idiot.

 

[boomslang]

Alright folks, you've all given me such great advice so I aught to give you a run down of whats been happening since I last posted.
I grew the balls to go and talk to her, and it went great. We do have a lot in common and shes a lovely girl, the conversation was flowing.

After a while though things died down and I didnt get an explanation as to why. It was a quick deal and it's all over now but im 90% sure the first girl I mentioned got in touch with the new one and told her to stop talking to me.

Shes done this thing before, so it wouldn't suprise me if she did it again, old habits die hard.

Most annoying thing is that although she wants nothing to do with me, she doesnt want anyone else having anything to do with me, so im usually left with the lower end of the female spectrum when getting to know people.

Onwards and upwards however, and thank you once again for all the advice, I honestly feel better now than I did before.