Personally, with highly flocculant yeast, I find that I hit FG a few days before the diacetyl fades to the level I like leaving in the cask. Once that happens, I run the beer into the cask (usually a homebrew keg)--5-10 days from pitching. Usually I don't chill first, because the beer is quite clear at that point.
I use gelatin because it works OK for me so far. It's not trad, but it's functional, and I'm just a hobbyist. 1-2 weeks to carb, then chill to 50 degrees, roll around to get the gelatin back into contact with the chill haze, settle for 2 days, and start drinking. I dispense with co2 (again, not trad, but I can't drink it but so fast). At this point the beer is 3-4 weeks old or so, and finished (not green unless fermentation didn't proceed correctly, in which case more time might help), and nearly polished. The hops loose their sparkle slowly over the next few weeks, although unless oxygen gets admitted to the party (like when using a collapsible) the ale as a whole just gets more mellow.
That's my experience.
I am digging the Windsor flavor from the gravity samples, but so far it looks like the co-pitch doesn't do near enough to make it work in the process I just described. Oh well, horses for courses.