Who would know a simple question would produce such a complex conversation, lol. Thats the interesting thing I am discovering about this hobby. Sometimes it seems and is so simple, but there are so many layers and complexities to explore if you desire.
hang around here long enough and this discussion will seem positively friendly and civil. its way too easy to over analyze every little thing about brewing, because it touches on so many different concepts: physics, gas laws, microbiology, in- and organic chemistry, statistics, and a bunch of other stuff.
at the end of the day, the best thing you can do is do the reading, learn the basic/underlying concepts, and decide which methods you are going to adopt: all grain, BIAB, herms, LoDo, hot boil, low boil, fast chill, no chill, high pH + high boil for dark beers, low pH + low boil for light beers, etc. etc.
at some point you'll have to compromise, time/effort/money means you cant always do every technique you'd like to perform. so establish a game plan, get your self a system or routine and make a bunch of beer. then drink it. if you're happy with it, great. you're done. if you're unhappy, or if you wanna tweak it a bit then make your changes to process one at a time.