I'm giving primary only one more try but it's just not working for me
Seems arbitrary and dogmatic. To quote you:
Tip #1: Experiment!
To me that means keep an open mind. I'm not the only one who's had great success without secondaries. I have tried both ways, but secondaries for most homebrewers just mean doubling up on one of the most dangerous events in the homebrew process, racking.
But we all have to be comfortable with our own process, so even though this whole thread is about improving each others' processes...that's the last I'll say on the subject. It's not that kind of a thread.