Here's what I was talking about with the PB and estop. If anyone sees a problem please weigh in.
On my system I used a 3PST main power contactor, and that is switching the neutral line so I was able to connect both the start and latching part of the circuit through a single contact block on the estop. If you go with a DPST contactor, as you have diagramed, then you will need to use 2NC contact blocks on your estop. Have the start button wired to one of the contact blocks and the power coming from your 3 A breaker coming into the other contact block. Jump the other side of the contact blocks together and into your power contactor's coil. This will have your estop functioning as a total system shutdown, as it should. If you do not use two contact blocks and instead tie both lines through a single contact block you could power the 3A circuit by pushing your start button even while the estop was triggered, which wouldn't be what you want.