Well I think I have figured out the problem. Seems like there may have been two. Not sure of this first one but the ground may have been touching one of the hots inside the element enclosure. I am using the ones from brewhardware. So got that fixed.
But what may be a real culprit is that the ground coming into my spa panel is not connected at the other end. My brother(electrician) moved my 220 dryer run a few months back so to move the dryer to the new laundry room as well as feeding the spa panel to turn either the dryer run on or the brew panel on. Well apparently he just added onto the old wire in a junction box which is correct but when I opened up the junction box, the old wire did not have a ground in it so the new wires ground is just flowing in the breeze so to speak! I can not believe he did that. I am so pissed at him. Even I would know better and I am not an electrician.
So before finding this 'grave' error' I was testing the receptacles in the control panel. The 110v all seemed fine. But the 220v were a little weird. One hot would show 220 when paired to the white(neutral) and the other hot showed 0. And of course the ground did nothing with any of the connections. Can this also be due to the missing ground connection?