I would skip the secondary for now. Its really just a pathway for oxidation (from poor siphoning) and maybe contamination if you aren't sound in your brewing practices.
Your brew process sounds great. I would just bottle at the time you go to a secondary, unless you want to dry hop or add fruit or something.
Cheezy - no, he isn't lagering, he is keeping a beer in a secondary at primary fermentation temperatures, which I don't think is necessary. He should just bottle it, let it reach carbonation, then drink it when it tastes the best to him. Why waste the time in a secondary when you are going to have to wait 2-3 weeks for carbonation anyways? Might as well kill two birds with one stone. I mean, he probably wants to drink his homebrew asap. And he should, b/c that is part of the learning process....drinking green beer, then drinking that beer when its fully ready. How else does one learn why ppl do certain things in brewing? Not from reading forum posts.
Storing your beer cold (55 F) = less oxidation = longer time you can secondary it/store it. Of course there are a lot of other variables that affect this (%alcohol, hops, etc.), but he can read a book if he wants to learn those sorts of things.