get a kit from http://webshop.amsmoke.com/ or http://vermontfreehand.com/. always think about the stem and stummel as one piece when shaping and sanding. there's a lot of great information over at http://pipemakersforum.com/forum/index.php, but I suggest not asking questions there. they tend to look down on folks that don't spend two years reading the entire site before signing up. there's also a lot of good info on http://pipesmokersforum.com/community/.
Thanks for the great info!