I suggest a good digital PH meter if you can afford it. I got a Hanna from Amazon for around 80 bucks if I remember right. The strips just aren't that accurate.
If you have hard water you can actually boil it for a while first and that will help. In fact if your using tap water you should boil it first anyway to remove chlorine. 6.5 is about a perfect starting PH for strike water IMHO, but I will say that I usually don't pre treat my strike water. 15 minutes into the mash I take a sample; and I cool it down because my meter doesn't read PH above 140 or so. Most of the good meters have automatic temperature correction. If the PH is too low I will add calcium carbonate and if the PH is too high I will add gypsum. Generally with bottled water I have to add very little, if anything. I would never add more than 2 teaspoons of anything, if it isn't working at that point just leave it be. I've actually never added more than a teaspoon of anything, and usually only add 1/8 or 1/4 teaspoon at a time. If your using more roasted malts or acid malt the PH will be lower. My Guiness clones will be about 4.8 or 4.9 after 15 minutes, so not far off what I want. Often times I don't have to do anything. Usually after I treat I stir and wait 15 minutes, then check it again.
This is just what I've come to and seems to work for me, there may be some others here with better ideas.