I am starting out at 213 pounds and 5'-5" with a calorie restricted diet (~1500 to 1800/day) and a 40/40 fat/muscle ratio. She, the wife, won't disclose her weight but she gave birth to a second child 10 months ago.
I'd really suggest you consider keeping your caloric intake closer to 2000, if not a little higher, around 2300. If you go too low you risk slowing your metabolism and your body burning muscle, rather than fat for energy. You could easily add 300-400 calories of vegetables and lean protein to keep your metabolism running at max efficiency.
You are right there. Hadn't thought about it really. The calorie targets were based on sedentary activity and with this, activity is definitely NOT sedentary. To be honest, I stopped counting a while ago I just hadn't stopped eating similarly than when I was counting.
Took a break from P90 last night after realizing the next session was Shoulders and Arms with Ab Ripper. It was the ripper part that scared me I think. Feel better now after a days break and plan to pick it back up tonight.