Ok, so while CA's suggestion is fair, it's more beer making technique.
With meads we're dealing with much higher OG and fermentables that drop considerably lower than beer wort.
With that in mind, it's much easier to work to one set of numbers than the hassle of working to two i.e. One process stage at a time.
So, seeing that the greater number of wine yeasts have a max published ttolerance of 14% ABV (and putting aside the notion and anecdotal evidence of properly nourished yeast exceeding that for the moment), it's easiest to work out the gravity drop that represents 14% and use that as a guide, then you're reducing the chance of making a must that causes osmotic shock to the yeast and possibly stressing it so it produces off flavours, excessive fusels, etc or other negatives.
I work my numbers to presume finished at 1.000 (which gives some scope for variation as meads don't generally seem to drop below 0.990).
Then ferment dry, stabilise and back sweeten to your desired level.
similarly, if you like to sit on the "I don't like adding chemicals" hedge, then that also allows you to ferment down low but then step feed small amounts of honey so you exceed the yeast tolerance and add the back sweetening material to a desired level.
Yes, this could be seen as being a little hit and miss, but by using the numbers as a guide it's actually more accurate than you give it credit for and it's certainly easier than trying to manage a problematic ferment where the maker could have saved themselves a lot of problems by not pushing too far, to fast.
Good methodology helps a great deal.......