Maybe I should use even less heat when bumping mash temps then????
I've been down this road more than a few times, so I am speaking from direct experience. The solution is a faster flow rate, not lower heat, although you will be forced to reduce the heat if the flow rate is slow or you risk both cavitation and possible scortching.
I'm doing the direct fired RIMS thing and I've been tweaking the system for a very long time getting it to work right.
1. Use large inside diameter hoses throughout and keep the bottleneck restrictions to an absolute minimum. It all adds up quickly. GET BIGGER HOSES
2. Keep the hoses as short as possible, especially on the suction side of the pump. Every foot counts, so shorten up if you can. USE SHORT HOSES
3. Don't crush the grain too fine. It's not worth the small gain in efficiency. Efficiency is not that important, or shouldn't be anyway. CRUSH OPTIMALLY
4. Install a vacuum gage on the suction side of the pump. This was a major improvement. You can really see what's going on while pumping.MONITOR PUMP SUCTION
5. Monitor return wort temp with a digital thermocouple type thermometer. This was another major improvement that I don't know how I got along without. Prevents overshooting temps easily. MONITOR RETURN WORT TEMP ACCURATELY
The above key points took me forever to figure out by trial and error. Not a problem as I like playing with this stuff. Don't make the mistake of dismissing any of these items as unimportant. Because there are multiple factors working simultaneously, they can compound and aggravate each other which makes problems more difficult to pin down. Check all of the above, correct as needed and watch the problems disappear.