Just how cool is SWMBO?

[specialkaye]

The other day, I broached the idea of a kegerator to go along with the new casino table bar SHE bought. The idea was very well received and lauded with stories about how her dad had a single tap kegerator in the basement and a few anecdotes about the good times she had.

So, we got a totally unexpected check for $200 and SWMBO says, without me saying or asking a thing, just out of the blue really, "I don't see why you can't use this $200 for brewing supplies if you want."

Just how cool is THAT?

 

[Pappers_]

Very cool

 

[Mateo]

Can your friends see your wife? Do people ask you who you are talking to when in public?

It's not real unless we see a picture

Really you are a lucky guy!

 

[surreal_trip]

Ha ya pics or it never happened... My lovely SWMBO is a hard ass when it comes to my 'man craziness'. She's a firm believer that men don't need any dedicated space and that I'm clearly insane to want a bar in the basement... and not her martini lounge idea... FML

 

[cheezydemon3]

Can your friends see your wife? Do people ask you who you are talking to when in public?

It's not real unless we see a picture

Really you are a lucky guy!

Lol. Mine seems made up too. She still has the figure of a bikini model at 35 and after 3 kids. She does not however EVER allocate funds for brewing.

So you've got me.

 

[Waunabeer]

Ha ya pics or it never happened... My lovely SWMBO is a hard ass when it comes to my 'man craziness'. She's a firm believer that men don't need any dedicated space and that I'm clearly insane to want a bar in the basement... and not her martini lounge idea... FML

Maybe you should call ADAM.

My SWMBO let me build a brew room (in progress) in the basement and let's me brew whenever I want. I also have 3 kids. She is just very understanding of my needs. Here's a picture of us just so you know she is real.

 

[DrawTap88]

I'd be suspicious of her. NO way do I ever get a surprise like that without her wanting something in return.

 

[Scubbastv]

I'd be suspicious of her. NO way do I ever get a surprise like that without her wanting something in return.

No, its not that bad. The other day my SWMBO told me that she was going to get me a roller mill and a gift card for $150 for supplies for Christmas. She's totally behind me too!:rockin:

 

[surreal_trip]

I guess the good part with us is I can spend all the money I want on any of my hobbies hahah as long as I keep it all in my un-winterized sheds... Those shed next summer are going to get some serious upgrading

 

[cheezydemon3]

Maybe you should call ADAM.

My SWMBO let me build a brew room (in progress) in the basement and let's me brew whenever I want. I also have 3 kids. She is just very understanding of my needs. Here's a picture of us just so you know she is real.

How do we know that is you.

 

[roadymi]

You guys having trouble getting brewing funds allocated are going about it all wrong. I purchased my wife a complete wine making kit with all the nicest gadgets for xmas last year. She has so much fun with her wine that she hasn't opposed a single purchase I've made for my gear.

 

[Waunabeer]

How do we know that is you.

Because if I were lying I would have posted something like this...

 

[NoisufnoC]

Very cool.

Mine is very supportive. She puts up with the mess I make of her kitchen when I brew, and helps me through the process. She got a kick out of swirling the last yeast starter I made.

 

[BendBrewer]

In the Spring I was getting ready to bottle a batch of BM's Blonde, the second batch of beer I bottled that weekend. Cleaning and sanitizing the bottles and what not.

My SWMBO kept going in and out of the kitchen doing her thing and she said, "That's it, go get a keg system. Take my card and go get whatever you need. I'm tired of watching you have to go through all of that."

I married her in July!

 

[jonp9576]

mine hasnt done anything that cool, but she said something pretty funny the other night about those new resealable pints all the BMCs are coming out with"what the hell do you need a resealable cap for. drink the dam beer"

 

[jgln]

Because if I were lying I would have posted something like this...

I think we need more proof.

 

[jgardner6]

I'm very lucky mine lets me buy whatever I want without ever asking and my brewery shows it. Besides I'm the one with the job not her. Congrations on the new kegerator.

 

[Pappers_]

Besides I'm the one with the job not her.

Danger, Danger, Danger!!!!!! Do not ever, ever, ever let her hear you say that. It would be best to not even think that thought again. I am absolutely, deadly serious.

 

[kevmoron]

Danger, Danger, Danger!!!!!! Do not ever, ever, ever let her hear you say that. It would be best to not even think that thought again. I am absolutely, deadly serious.

Sounds like you had a traumatic experience. Would it help to talk about it?

 

[Whut]

I married her in July!

Congrats B2, and you're from Bend. I knew you were cool.

 

[jgardner6]

No its all good and she knows it.

 

[MrInternet]

Sounds like you had a traumatic experience. Would it help to talk about it?

I think he was providing a bit of mature, experienced advice that thinking "my job, my money, and I'll do what I want" is a really juvenile and prickish way to act in a marriage relationship. Not saying that jgardner meant it that way, but trust me, as a SAHD myself, I can assure you that the security issues faced by someone who has to DAILY deal with the reality that their SO is earning all the bread (whether by mutual decision or unfortunate circumstance... and I've been in both places) is already a decent-sized mindscrew without having to deal with a partner who basically feels that all the money they make is theirs to do what they please with and you don't get a say.

THAT attitude can end a marriage quickly. If my wife said anything like that to me, and I thought she was serious, I'd be in hell.

 

[jgardner6]

I think he was providing a bit of mature, experienced advice that thinking "my job, my money, and I'll do what I want" is a really juvenile and prickish way to act in a marriage relationship. Not saying that jgardner meant it that way, but trust me, as a SAHD myself, I can assure you that the security issues faced by someone who has to DAILY deal with the reality that their SO is earning all the bread (whether by mutual decision or unfortunate circumstance... and I've been in both places) is already a decent-sized mindscrew without having to deal with a partner who basically feels that all the money they make is theirs to do what they please with and you don't get a say.

THAT attitude can end a marriage quickly. If my wife said anything like that to me, and I thought she was serious, I'd be in hell.

No I didn't mean it like that. Thats just the way its always been in my marriage. I'm in the Army and deployed three time to combat about to go again so thats where a lot of my brewing stuff comes from, that deployment money. My wife is very simple and doesn't like a lot of things. As long as she has a book to read she is happy.

 

[MrInternet]

No I didn't mean it like that. Thats just the way its always been in my marriage. I'm in the Army and deployed three time to combat about to go again so thats where a lot of my brewing stuff comes from, that deployment money. My wife is very simple and doesn't like a lot of things. As long as she has a book to read she is happy.

Ah, understood... I think Pappers and I have just both known our fair share of people that meant it the other way. I'm glad you've worked it out so well between you... and thanks for your service, I really appreciate it!

 

[specialkaye]

Okay, I got a great picture to post, but it's gotta wait. I'm pretty much brain dead after a LONG day and just don't feel up to futzing with uploading and all that stuff just now.

So far I've only spent $100 on supplies/equipment but I did get a confirmed okay for kegs too. And, SWMBO even helped point out the Home Despot insulation for Son of Fermenter for HER lagers. Then she suggested a refrigerator might be more convenient. We even talked about a keezer. Got the okay for either one. How's that?

Oh my, so much to do, and brew, and my damn job keeps interfering with my WORK!

 

[tucsonmike]

Because if I were lying I would have posted something like this...

Wow. Mikey Likey!

 

[mikeysab]

The only time my wife ever mentions homebrewing is when she tells me "Could you clear all your beer bottles (TAD bottles, 12 oz, 22 oz, and EZ cap) off the counter" Or when I tell her I'm brewing, she says "Well I guess I'll do something with the kids while you're brewing your beer". It's always a smart a$$ remark or some way of letting me know she doesn't approve. And we all know wives way of SAYING something without actually SAYING it. The funny part of it all is that SHE was the one that suggested I brew my own beer. So I think I'm trying to say that my wife is NOT cool......AT ALL. but she doesn't drink, and i slap the daylights out of her when I do, so I guess I should understand.

 

[jgourd]

Although my wife does sometimes complain about bottles in totes sitting in *her* office (the rest of the brewing equipment is in my office), she is totally supportive of the hobby. During a recent budget conversation, she even said that the beer hobby has to be in there!

 

[kevmoron]

but she doesn't drink, and i slap the daylights out of her when I do, so I guess I should understand.

Am I misinterpreting this? Please tell me I am reading this incorrectly.

 

[marcycaulkins]

believe it or not, boys, some women like beer.