My best hazy to date that I did back in the spring I had 6 oz whirlpool(180 degrees) in a 4.25 gallon batch. It wasn't meant to be that much whirlpool but I accidentally threw some of the dry hop charge into whirlpool. Dry hop ended up being 4 oz T90 and 1 oz cryo(simcoe), so essentially the same amount. The beer wasn't bitter at all and bursting with juicy hop flavor. I think alot of people sleep on the hot side hops and assume they don't add much.
The recipe I like uses 4.5oz/5gal in the whirlpool and 6.5oz/5gal of dry hops. I get plenty of juicy hop flavor too much IMO with LAIII. I think hop quality plays a big role as well. I recently started buying my hops directly from Yakima Valley rather than my local homebrew shop. Not only is the quality much better but they are usually cheaper too.
In my recipes I mostly keep it to 2 hop verities a main hop and supporting hop in roughly a 3:1 ratio. I just buy 8 oz. packs from Yakima Valley and use the whole thing in one batch as my main hop, that way I don't have to worry about how fresh an open pack of hops are.