After trying my luck with Ebay parts, I bit the bullet and now have an Auber PID controller and a Teledyne SSR running the system. I sanded the base of the SSR flat (a little convex) and made sure to have sufficient heat paste between it and the large heatsink. I also added a computer fan on the control panel to keep things cooler. It's 85+ here in Houston right now and my control box is sitting at 92 while I'm calibrating/setting up the new controller. I also didn't like putting the wire ends into the switch connectors so I put small gauge "forks" on each one and they stay connected nicely. $4 well spent, but time consuming. Each is soldered and has heat shrinking over the joint. No chance of anything shorting when the door is closed.
First thing I notice is that it cycles far less frequently than the Fotek/MyPin combination did and after autotuning it, it barely overshoots (~1* max). I can live with that!
I found that not only was the old Fotek fried but the MyPin was flashing his output lamp but the output voltage was continuous!! No wonder the thing ran away and self destructed. On a positive note, the 2 beers I made (at least mashed) on electric (had to finish with propane) and using the new fermenting chamber came out great! A nice Irish red and a Bombshell Blonde knockoff. I'm very pleased. The mashing temps went too high too quick and I ended up getting a higher FG than targeted, but I like them malty and it was a lucky mistake. Next up, a big Belgian. Maybe I'll name it "Third time's the charm".