I am overwhelmed by the great advice and encouragement from everyone, I really appreciate it. I live in Portland, OR, and the first 4 brews I just used tap water for the wort, and pre-boiled tap water for topping it off. The last two brews I used pre-boiled carbon filtered tap water (brand new carbon filter), and just carbon filtered tap water for the wort. A few asked about my entire process of brewing, to help pinpoint what might be going wrong, so here it goes, sorry if it is long: Bought all ingredients for pale ale (see previous posts for recipe), canned malt extract, whole leaf hops, precrushed grain. 2 Days before brewing: Make a yeast starter with 1/3 cup DME and 2 cups water and liquid yeast, put it in glass jar at room temperature, shaking it occasionally to aerate. 1 Day before brewing: Boil 2-3 gallons of filtered tap water for 10-15 minutes, then put in clean containers and let cool for brew day. Brew Day: Clean all equipment with a quick wash in hot water and soap, rinse well, and sanitize by immersing in Iodophor solution for 10 minutes, and then letting it air dry on clean towel. (Side note: all equipment is cleaned immediately after use, so no equipment has dried-on grunge or anything). Fill 5 gallon pot with 2 gallons of filtered tap water, let it rise to 150 F (use digital thermometer), then steep specialty grains using a grain bag for 30 minutes, keeping temperature close to 150F. At 30 minutes, pull grain bag out, letting residual wort drip out without squeezing bag. Add 2 more gallons of water (to get a close to full wort boil) and turn heat to high until boiling. At boiling, remove from heat, add 1 cup of extract (using late extract addition method), and 60 minute hops in hop bag. Complete other hop additions at 15 minutes. With 10-15 minutes left, I add remainder extract, yeast nutrient Servomyces, and wort chiller to sanitize. At end of 60 minutes, take pot outside, hook up wort chiller to hose, and turn water on full blast, keeping top on the pot. Usually reach 75-80 degrees within 10-15 minutes. Add wort to glass carboy, fill to 5 gallon line with preboiled and filtered water, take gravity reading to see if it is on target, add yeast to wort, attach airlock, and then shake vigorously for 5 minutes to aerate yeast. Let sit with towel covering carboy at room temperature (60-75 degrees). I usually see activity by the next morning, and after 24 hours I see LOTS of activity, the wort is really churning. Typically it drops off after 5 days, and I take a gravity reading at 1 week, and then the next day to see if it has changed at all. If it hasn't, I transfer to secondary glass carboy, and let sit for 2 weeks in basement for cooler temperatures to let the yeast settle out to get clearer beer. After two weeks, I bottle the beer, boiling 3/4 cup priming sugar in 2 cups water. For bottles, I clean with Straight A cleanser to clean the labels, and use a bottle brush to clean the inside. Then after rinsing well, I load into dishwasher to let the high heat sanitize the bottles, and I don't open the dishwasher until when I am ready to bottle, which is after the bottles have cooled down and mostly dry. I rack beer into bottling bucket with priming sugar, stirring to get a good mixture, and then rack into bottles. Let bottles sit at room temperature for two weeks to carbonate, and then put in basement to keep the beer cool.
So there it is, let me know if you see anything out of the ordinary, or if I am missing some vital step in the process. Thanks again for the help, you guys have regained my confidence and hope of someday brewing a good brew.
Note: Original Gravity for the Pale ale was 1.052, and FG was 1.016. If anyone is interested.