To calculate the amount of water you need, you essentially need to take where you want to end, and add water for all your losses, and get to where you need to start. I don't have the information about your particular setup, so it's hard to land it perfectly....
That kit is designed for 5 gallons, so you need that much. Boil off will evaporate anywhere from .75 to 1.5 gallons on average, so add that on. Grain absorbs, in my experience between around .045-.1 gal/lb, add that on. Various losses in hoses and at the bottom of the kettle can be between 0 to a quart or more. About .04 gal per ounce of hops.
If you start with 8.25 gal - absorption (1.05 gal) - boil off (1.25 estimated) = 5.95 - various losses I would expect you to end up around 5.75 gal or more. Which is a little high, I would suggest reducing your water by about .5 gal.
http://biabcalculator.com/ should help you out if you just want the numbers, it's numbers about match mine, suggesting to use about 7.5 gallons total.
If you've been doing extracts, you should have a concept for how much boil off to expect, and can punch that in to get a little more precise.