The Brewers Best Tripel kit I found had Briess LME and DME. I consider these very good. I wouldn't consider the extract old unless the packaging looked like it had been around for a long time. The included yeast was 11 grams of Nottingham. Packaged together in a kit like it was, I wouldn't consider this yeast to be a problem.
I had a True Brew kit where a 5 gram pack of unidentified yeast was taped to the can. The can was dusty and the yeast pack perforated. Storage temperatures and time I consider mishandling.
You have a stalled fermentation with both dry and liquid yeast, and a starter was made for the liquid yeast. Since the problem fermentations were with two different types of yeast, I would suspect another problem.
If you had well aerated worts, and fermentation temperatures were stable, I would look at the water used for brewing. Zinc deficiencies can cause problematic fermentations. Nitrogen deficiency may be a more likely problem with extract, than the zinc deficiency.
I would suggest a yeast nutrient for your next brew to see what the results are. WLN1000 and Wyeast Nutrient are good products. I lately started using the Wyeast nutrient.