Most barrels that are waxed are only done so on the end caps. If it's a fresh empty you just need to fill it. If it's been empty for a while you need to re wet it on the inside and soak the outside. I set mine on end over a sink or drain and fill the end with warm star-san, let it overflow down the sides and then wrap it in a soaking wet towel, let sit 24 hrs then flip. If it's been empty for more then a month you might want to fill it with super clean water to check for leaks, (I've only had to do that to a new barrel). Once your reasonably sure it's sound I like to re wet it with my favorite whisky. The place I buy mine from will re wet with their collected stuff for a price,but it's worth it. ( 126 proof and you get 16 oz) The main thing to think about is that the VERY slow migration of oxygen into the barrel is required for the flavor compounds to split and become more complex. The big dogs are experimenting with very low O2 injection in CCV's while aging on soaked wood, like we sometimes do in a carboy.