I know HBT is a form of social media, and wasn't trying to bash anything necessarily, I'm just trying to say that people get carried away with Facebook and Twitter and whatnot, posting everything about everything that happens in their lives as if everyone needs to give a damn. SWMBO is addicted to facebook and I really think her real world social life has suffered from it. I've given it a try (twice) and just can't do it.
I've felt the same way. I was one of the last people I know to get a cellphone, and I've had an iPhone since May. I HATE the way people are sitting together, like in a restaurant and staring at their phones instead of interacting with each other. When my daughter was in college, she asked me to go out for lunch at a visit. While I was having lunch for her (and I was buying!), she kept texting and reading her text messages and I was furious inside.
Still, I found HBT almost 9 years ago (!) and found that it was a great fit for me. A few years later, I tried Facebook and didn't really 'get' it, but a few high school friends found me and invited to me to our 30 year reunion. After that, I found some of my brewing buddies from this forum on Facebook, and found that I liked that part of it. I'm boring, so I post about beer and food mostly, but with a few fish pictures and grandkids stuff, but I do love reading some of my friends' posts and activities.
The key for me was to not follow people who post a billion stupid photos or dumb sayings, even though I actually like those people in person. I've kept up a bit with my friends from the homebrew conferences, enjoyed staying in touch with high school friends, plus my daughter will sometimes post photos of her kids and I love that. I think that I use it when I want, and I'm not a slave to it, and that makes it useful to me.
The way I learned to brew was through this forum, and I've made real friends here that I've kept up with via this forum and Facebook, so I do have a real appreciation for what it can give me.
If I ever walk around with a blank look on my face, head down, mouth open, typing with my thumbs though- KICK ME. HARD!
