This sentence has been repeated a lot of time, and referring to something that is not incorrect at all. As someone said I pick up several litres of O2 but can not answer to the question "why not a single bubble in the airlock".
I don't know if this is even the most relevant question in this thread to answer at this point, but I don't think anyone has answered it yet in this way:
If I understand you correctly that you have cold crashed and not observed any suck back at all in any way, then the only conclusion I can make is that there is another point of ingress to your fermenter other than your airlock. That's the only alternate scenario in my mind given what you've said. You can't take a closed container, drop the temperature inside of it by 30-40 degrees F and not have the internal pressure drop. At that point, either the container is truly air-tight and structurally able to withstand the pressure, or one of the following things happens: either the container is truly air-tight and closed and NOT structurally capable of handling the conditions and it collapses. Or the container is truly air-tight and closed and IS structurally capable of handling the conditions, or it is not truly air-tight and the pressure will equalize with the outside atmosphere. In the case of a plastic fermenter like yours, it has to equalize. So, if there is only one point of ingress and that is your airlock, there absolutely, positively HAS to be suck-back. If there is no suck-back through the airlock, then the air is finding an easier/alternative path in.
This, in no way, addresses the topic of oxidation and how much that affects your beer. Just trying to lend an explanation for why you may not have witnessed evidence of suck back through your airlock.