Jim Carlson from CMBecker replied to my request with pictures and descriptions of how the washers are installed/ordered on the lever. See attached. Great customer support from CMBecker and big thanks to Jim for helping me get this right. I won't know for sure if it works until I charge the lines with new beer, which should be in a month or so. Regardless, this is the correct order of assembly for the faucet. Note to self...take a picture of the faucet parts the next time I disassemble.
I like the faucets - but there is something to be said about the simplicity of internals of a Perlick (faucet body, lever).
Matt