OP again - after reading through all this, I think the last couple of posts are where I'm settling in. At this point in my brewing career, clarity is a lower priority to ensuring that I'm getting the basics of brewing down (I know, I know, to a lot of people, clarity is one of the basics...). As I get my processes, recipes, etc down pat, I think the clarity part will come.
I don't think my palate is quite refined enough yet to detect any difference between a slightly hazy beer and a completely clear one, so the comments about it being a mind thing rang true, at least for me. I will say that the handful of bottles that have lingered in my fridge a little longer and dropped clearer than their predecessors have given me a little surge of pleasure when I poured them. Just can't say I noticed an appreciable difference in the quality.