Yeah, I used to live about halfway between Toronado and Bar Crudo. Hence me only going to Abbott's once. Bar Crudo was one of my go tos for friends/family visiting. I can't say enough good things about it. Non-happy hour, the bill can get a bit substantial though.Went to Monk's once, and never went back there or Abbot's cellar. Lots of > restaurants in the City to choose from.
If you are looking for a spot with great food and a killer tap/bottle list that isn't going to rape your wallet like that, try Bar Crudo on Divisadero and grab a Pliny or RR at Mini Bar before or after.
Abbott's does have a cool bottle share on Wednesday nights after they close.