One recommendation- don't watch those vids.

I'm in the medical field, so yes I know a bit about asepsis. Couple things to think about:
1. Don't worry about anything before and during the boil. The boil will sterilize everything except for maybe anthrax spores. (So don't add dead cows to your mash).
2. During your cooling process, keep the lid on, and if you put anything in the wort, spray it 1st with starsan (or iodofor).
3. Make sure your fermenter is clean. Then make sure you sanitize it well. After you pour your wort into it,
Everything that touches it gets the sanitizer treatment. Don't forget your hands- starsan or use hand sanitizer.
4. Once everything is in the bucket, LEAVE it alone. Every time you open the bucket to take a peak you increase the potential contamination possibilities. Don't even think about taking a SG sample for a full week minimum.
5. Remember that beer, as it's fermenting is a great environment to grow yeast, but a piss-poor environment for nasties.
6. Your bottling equipment(or kegging equipment) is a place that some people forget about. There are plenty of nooks and crannies that can hide bacteria, so make sure you first clean, then sanitize. Even go so far as to take things apart and scrub with a toothbrush and sanitizer.
If you follow posts around here for a while, you'll see that even the best will occasionally get a contamination problem. Maybe they were lax in technique, maybe they forgot to check the hiding places, or maybe it was an act of the beer gods. RDWHAHB and do better next time.
