As a long time mead brewer, just tell your hubby that using a hydrometer is a bit of art, and a bit of science. Just look at the difference of the specific gravities to figure out your alcohol volume. Also, given that others have pointed out that there's only a 0.1% or so difference for adding priming sugars, that's actually below the threshold for figuring alcohol. Unless you're going to get your brew examined by a laboratory, just use the ABV to the nearest half percent as a measure of ethanol.