My lhbs is about 40 minutes away and $3.00 in highway tolls. I did 4 things:
1) I took the mason jar that had harvested yeast that was overbuilt from the yeast starter and I will be sitting at room temp for a week or two to see if it changes into vinagar (will not be using it either way).
2) I bought a foam stopper so this will never happen again
3) I made a Saison today and hit my gravity on spot.
4) I pitched the yeast. Before someone says "bad idea", I am well aware of the risk. I needed to brew today so I can rack to my keg before I go out of town next weekend (if fermenation is up to speed and I don't have vinagar)
I researched the internet on the fruit fly issue in starters for about 2 hours. Many say "don't do it" but don't have personal experiences. Many have done it anyways and their batch turned out fine. Very little that ive seen online actually tried it and it turned south. I am willing to take the "try it" route. Worst comes to worst, I learn a lesson and I become an advocate of saying "don't do it because I tried it and got 5.5 gallons on vinagar".
I have also read that this reaction to turn it into vinagar requires oxygen and a decent amount of time. I will be transferring to my keg taking steps to have virtually no oxygen exposure. I usually drink my kegs within a month or two so by the time actetobacter decides to want to work, I will be peeing it out in the toilet.

ill update on what happens.