PanzerBanana
Well-Known Member
Ok. I need some input. Just to see if I really did observe what I thought I did. And where better than to seek it than where an assortment of folks with vaired experiences may shine some light upon my quandry?
So we were out of town for the weekend and opted for pizza. I go in to pick it up, and then an odd thing happened. The friendly smile and standard cordial greeting from the lass at the counter--was different.
Now to be honest I am not the most observant sort when it comes to subtle things. However, there was just something that caught me off guard the way she seemed to be looking at me. Like made me slightly self-conscious.
She certainly is an attractive young woman, and that was about all I thought of things when I saw her as I walked in. Aside from being engaged, I'm not that into blondes, and generally prefer a gal with some meat on her bones to turn my head, in this case far more. So I don't think it's all in my head, as I hadn't any interest.
I don't have any experience processing these sorts of encounters. I'm a geek through and through. I'm still combating shyness. And I used to be quite over weight. Like when I see old pics of myself my first thought is "omg, why didnt anyone tell me". So being eyed by anyone wasn't really a thought I ever had much.
Yet here I am, with a situation that distinctly stands out against all others of the same variety, including those with women I did find personally attractive.
Soooooo, thoughts? Is it all in my head? Are there any subtle clues I should try to recall?
In the past, my fiance had pointed me being checked out a couple of times. But I can't really seek her female input in this case. Mostly because I'm still slimming down and have begun working out, and sometimes she's a bit self-conscious about that.
And the only reason I'm really stuck on this "experience" is simply because I'd like to know it wasn't just my imagination.
So we were out of town for the weekend and opted for pizza. I go in to pick it up, and then an odd thing happened. The friendly smile and standard cordial greeting from the lass at the counter--was different.
Now to be honest I am not the most observant sort when it comes to subtle things. However, there was just something that caught me off guard the way she seemed to be looking at me. Like made me slightly self-conscious.
She certainly is an attractive young woman, and that was about all I thought of things when I saw her as I walked in. Aside from being engaged, I'm not that into blondes, and generally prefer a gal with some meat on her bones to turn my head, in this case far more. So I don't think it's all in my head, as I hadn't any interest.
I don't have any experience processing these sorts of encounters. I'm a geek through and through. I'm still combating shyness. And I used to be quite over weight. Like when I see old pics of myself my first thought is "omg, why didnt anyone tell me". So being eyed by anyone wasn't really a thought I ever had much.
Yet here I am, with a situation that distinctly stands out against all others of the same variety, including those with women I did find personally attractive.
Soooooo, thoughts? Is it all in my head? Are there any subtle clues I should try to recall?
In the past, my fiance had pointed me being checked out a couple of times. But I can't really seek her female input in this case. Mostly because I'm still slimming down and have begun working out, and sometimes she's a bit self-conscious about that.
And the only reason I'm really stuck on this "experience" is simply because I'd like to know it wasn't just my imagination.