Yeah, I agree with the general sentiment, but come on -- "he canceled the wedding by leaving Shell a note in their bathroom." What a wuss.
Rick
Yeah, I agree with the general sentiment, but come on -- "he canceled the wedding by leaving Shell a note in their bathroom." What a wuss.
I have to recommend you watch the movie "Love Stinks"...Yeah, I agree with the general sentiment, but come on -- "he canceled the wedding by leaving Shell a note in their bathroom." What a wuss.
Rick
*shrug*
and here I saw something different.
They 'fall in love'. He proposes and they agree to live where he is at. She quits her job and moved. He dumps her.
So yeah-- she invested in the relationship in a very real, monetary fashion (leaving the investment she had in her job) and that cost was made hers alone when he dumped her.
Now, was there trouble in paradise? Oh yeah. But is she unnecessarily wrong here? That I'm not so sure of.
*shrug*
and here I saw something different.
They 'fall in love'. He proposes and they agree to live where he is at. She quits her job and moved. He dumps her.
So yeah-- she invested in the relationship in a very real, monetary fashion (leaving the investment she had in her job) and that cost was made hers alone when he dumped her.
Now, was there trouble in paradise? Oh yeah. But is she unnecessarily wrong here? That I'm not so sure of.
See, I think her debt is a red herring. It doesn't matter WHY he broke up with her. It could have been the debt; she could have been cheating on him; maybe she was a ***** to his mother. The reason he broke up with her shouldn't matter; he should have the absolute right to sever this relationship. A *promise* to marry should not be a legally binding agreement, people should have the right to change their mind.
You're right. Unless he put the promise of marriage in writing and had it notarized, the case should have been thrown out.
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