KC is my hometown. So let's start with BBQ.
Gates off 12th and brooklyn, downtown KC. It looks sketchy, but it's not bad. Just go during the day. That's the original location. Best BBQ you'll ever have.
Arthur Bryant's, downtown KC also. Delicious as well. Just google it. Also very sketchy, but safe. Cops eat there all the time.
Jack Stack BBQ, google it. It's in a nicer area. I actually had this BBQ cater my wedding. Freakin amazing beans also.
Beer places:
Anton's Tap House. It's near the P&L district, but farther south in the crossroads district. Awesome selection.
Flying saucer is good, but a little too close to P&L for my taste. But to each their own.
75th st brewery is a must. That place rocks. Technically in waldo, but if you're in Overland Park that shouldn't be too bad of a drive.
The beer selection is sparse, BUT 54th Street Bar & Grill has the best nachos in town.
Theres also a new place that just got put up. KC Bier Company.
http://kcbier.com/ - I can;t comment on this place. I haven't had the chance to go there yet. But some friends of mine actually invested in it. They say it's pretty awesome.
Anyway, sorry for the rant. That's all I could think of off the top of my head. Feel free to PM me about any of this if you want. I will help you have an awesome time in KC. I love my hometown
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