Scruffy1207
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I just broke up with my first gf of 2 1/2 years. I have mixed feelings about what I did, but I think that's only because she was my first gf. What do I do now?
I just broke up with my first gf of 2 1/2 years. I have mixed feelings about what I did, but I think that's only because she was my first gf. What do I do now?
The best way to get over a girl is to get under one.
No, for real. It's the truth. Pinky Swear.
TXCurtis said:Don't ya mean moist pink swear?
SD-SLIM said:Dear God...I had the same feelings about my first girlfriend, but I went out, kept busy and realized there was so much in life I had not explored....fast forward a life time, and I still love and miss my first girlfriend but wouldn't change it for the world!
In the future I was able to take my mistakes/her mistakes and apply them to future relationships....I am not sure if I have found my soul mate, but I am sure that if I died today...I loved, Lived, felt pain and would do it all again...so relax and think it through and either move on or beg for forgiveness!
The best way to get over a girl is to get under one.
No, for real. It's the truth. Pinky Swear.
You're going to find something better. I went through a string of 4 crazy ex girlfriends in a row. The last one took the cake because she has three personalities that I know of, she might have more. I had never even thought about striking a woman out of anger before I met this chick, but this ***** almost got her teeth knocked down her throat. Anyway after about 8 months I left her and I was pretty much done with women. I intended on being single the rest of my life. It had been a while since I had a long term relationship, so I felt a little empty because of it, but I just went about my life.
When I quit looking for a relationship along came this chick with the most beautiful eyes I've ever seen. She had an amazing personality and these eyes that were mesmerizing (can you tell eyes really do it for me?). The morning after I met this chick I called my mom and told her I met the woman I was going to marry. 1 1/2 years later the chick with the amazing eyes was my ex girlfriend because we had gotten married.
Life goes on. You're now wiser about relationships and you'll learn more once you're in your next relationship. Eventually you're going to meet that person that isn't just someone you could live with, but someone you can't live without.
hoppymonkey said:Oh yeah and one more thing. You are going to have a chance to sleep with the ex. It is always a bad idea, but you will probably do it anyway.
........ I did.
wildwest450 said:Go pigging!!!
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wildwest450 said:Go pigging!!!
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I just broke up with my first gf of 2 1/2 years. I have mixed feelings about what I did, but I think that's only because she was my first gf. What do I do now?
I hope this has something to do with bacon. Bacon cheers me up.
That was beautiful...you lucky bastard!
Vance71975 said:Sadly it has nothing at all to do with Bacon. The Term "Pigging" means go find a overweight woman that you normally would not sleep with and "pork her". Not exactly what i would do but it works for some i guess.
DregAddict said:The trick that has always worked for me when I break up with a girl and have second thoughts about it is to remember and focus on the reasons why you broke up. Of course you're going to have times when your lonely and you might think you made a mistake, but if you remind yourself of all the fights, stress, and general bad-times, then you'll realize you did the right thing.
Also, going out and having a good time is a great way to keep your mind off the ex. You don't necessarily have to chase after a ton of new girls either. Reconnect with friends that you haven't hung out with in a while. Spend more time getting stuff done that you personally enjoy. And when you do hook up with a new girl, don't let your loneliness get the best of you. Play it cool and don't get attached to another one too quickly. If you do that, you'll just be settling because you don't want to be alone.
The trick that has always worked for me when I break up with a girl and have second thoughts about it is to remember and focus on the reasons why you broke up. Of course you're going to have times when your lonely and you might think you made a mistake, but if you remind yourself of all the fights, stress, and general bad-times, then you'll realize you did the right thing.
Great Advice man!This! The human brain is hardwired to forget the bad things and remember all the good things. Which is why women will be ready to kill you for all the pain you inflicted upon her in the middle of childbirth, but be ready to push out another one as soon as possible.
They say that there are plenty of fish in the sea.... It's true. Date other women, don't just get them in bed. Learn about them and in the process you'll learn about yourself. Find out what you like about them the most, and make a list of the things you absolutely refuse to deal with. But most of all, be true to yourself. Don't be afraid to get hurt and you will find yourself some real happiness.
Good luck brewing brother. Keep an open mind and you'll find your match.
And don't sleep with the ex. It's ALWAYS a bad idea. Especially if you're drunk and "unprotected".
I just broke up with my first gf of 2 1/2 years. I have mixed feelings about what I did, but I think that's only because she was my first gf. What do I do now?
"I never had sex with a midget chick!"Now is the time! Don't get married and always have to wonder.
And this thread is useless without pictures of your ex.
We call it hoggin around here
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