The Pol
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So, there is this kid next door that my daughter plays with (6 yrs old). This kid has some very erratic emotions and he is NEVER wrong in his parents eyes. Today, I had to laugh.
This little $hit comes over asking to play IN the house with my daughter, all well and good except he ALWAYS destroys our house, even after repeated correcting, still throws stuff against the walls etc. So, I am like... sorry man, we have too many issues when you play indoors with you disrespecting us and our home, so no...
2 minutes later I get the call from "mamma". She is pissed, at me... for not allowing him to play in our home. I told her, look... he destroys our game room and will not stop even when we correct him, so I wont allow that in my home. She sayes... "well when your kids are over the kids get all rowdy and I have holes in walls and blah blah and I ignore it because that is just kids being kids. I was like... are you serious? This is MY home, not thiers. I SAY what happens here, not them. Being a kid IS NOT an excuse for bad behavior, or to ignore adults. If my kids act up at your home like that, regardless of whether or not you accept it, I DO NOT! SEND THEM HOME!
MY KIDS DO NOT act like that here or they get beat... if they act like that anywhere else they need to be sent home, it is unacceptable. I do not accept "kids will be kids" as an excuse for anything. Give your kids an ecxuse for bad behavior, and you have just made it OK.
She sayes... "well maybe our kids shouldnt play anymore, I thought we were all past this". PAST WHAT? Oh, I am totally ok with your kid wrecking my house and disobeying me... yah, STFU. I dont give a rats ass if they play, I just do not want it IN my HOME. They can play outside for all I care.
NOW, if this was reversed and my kids said "dad the neighbors wont let me play in thier house". Id be like... what the hell did you do? Call the neighbors... "what the hell did my kid do" Oh yah? That little $hit... I dont blame you for not letting him in... I will let him know he is not allowed in due to his piss poor behavior... thanks for letting me know".
I would NEVER BLAME the parent who is trying to protect thier household...
Parents are idiots. Cant wait til this generation starts running things. God help us all.
This little $hit comes over asking to play IN the house with my daughter, all well and good except he ALWAYS destroys our house, even after repeated correcting, still throws stuff against the walls etc. So, I am like... sorry man, we have too many issues when you play indoors with you disrespecting us and our home, so no...
2 minutes later I get the call from "mamma". She is pissed, at me... for not allowing him to play in our home. I told her, look... he destroys our game room and will not stop even when we correct him, so I wont allow that in my home. She sayes... "well when your kids are over the kids get all rowdy and I have holes in walls and blah blah and I ignore it because that is just kids being kids. I was like... are you serious? This is MY home, not thiers. I SAY what happens here, not them. Being a kid IS NOT an excuse for bad behavior, or to ignore adults. If my kids act up at your home like that, regardless of whether or not you accept it, I DO NOT! SEND THEM HOME!
MY KIDS DO NOT act like that here or they get beat... if they act like that anywhere else they need to be sent home, it is unacceptable. I do not accept "kids will be kids" as an excuse for anything. Give your kids an ecxuse for bad behavior, and you have just made it OK.
She sayes... "well maybe our kids shouldnt play anymore, I thought we were all past this". PAST WHAT? Oh, I am totally ok with your kid wrecking my house and disobeying me... yah, STFU. I dont give a rats ass if they play, I just do not want it IN my HOME. They can play outside for all I care.
NOW, if this was reversed and my kids said "dad the neighbors wont let me play in thier house". Id be like... what the hell did you do? Call the neighbors... "what the hell did my kid do" Oh yah? That little $hit... I dont blame you for not letting him in... I will let him know he is not allowed in due to his piss poor behavior... thanks for letting me know".
I would NEVER BLAME the parent who is trying to protect thier household...
Parents are idiots. Cant wait til this generation starts running things. God help us all.