I think you're talking about me...
I racked my first two batches because I trusted that the people at the LHBS actually KNEW what they were talking about... Then I found HBT... :rockin:
Since then, and batch #3, I've been using the long primary, no secondary method. Sure, I'll rack to AGE on something when it makes sense. But, the brew will still be in primary for X weeks (typically 4-8 weeks) first. Since I adopted this method, my brews have been super clear and tasted great. Even the ones that I aged on other flavor elements have been great (typically bigger brews).
I have a barley wine recipe that I'm working on that will be in primary for at least 2 months, if not 3+... I might even add oak cubes into primary, once the brew is ready. I won't be reusing the cubes, so I'm not concerned there. I'm planning on re-brewing some of my other big brews soon (in time to enjoy this fall/winter/spring) that will sit in primary for 8+ weeks.
IMO, give your yeast friends time to do their magic, and then do their second (and possibly third) jobs as well. If you give them the right conditions to work, you'll be richly rewarded.
BTW, everyone that tries one of my brews has nothing but good things to say. This is both 'regular' people as well as home brewers (that I've not met, but the brew gets to the via a friend)...
We take care to formulate our brews, spend the time to brew them (more so with all grain), pick each ingredient with love and care, doesn't it make sense to not rush things along once you put the airlock in? Seems pretty basic to me... I can't be alone in my thought process here...
I have some suggestions for fellow home brewers, especially those new to the lifestyle...
1. Get more primaries. Get at least two, so that you can have one batch in process and brew another. If you want to brew again before the older batch is really ready, get another primary. Right now I have four dedicated primaries, with five that could be used in a pinch (for ~5 gallon batches). I'm always looking for more.
2. Get the new Yeast book by Chris White and Jamil Zainasheff. It's chock full of knowledge that I wish I had known about earlier.
3. Time heals most brews. There's very little that more time won't fix when it comes to what we brew. Sure, there are some things that can happen that will completely F up your batch, and cannot be overcome, but those are very few. Usually self inflicted at that.
4. Learn more about 'off flavors' and what they mean.
5. If your batch tastes 'yeasty' and it's only a few weeks in primary, leave it there. I know it goes against what you might think, but leaving it on the yeast, in primary, will get rid of that yeast flavor faster than racking it.
6. Every time you rack your brew, unless you're doing it in a closed system with CO2, you open yourself up to contamination. Not saying it will happen every time, or you'll ever have it happen, but the risk is increased with every time you open the fermenter/vessel.
Above all else, have fun brewing, brew what you enjoy drinking (or brew for others what they enjoy), experiment with recipes, and RDWHAHB!