Okay, looks like I'm going to have to take a crack at it myself. This may be close (or maybe not) but here's my simple solution. Again I'm making assumptions for simplicity which I know are inaccurate but close enough. For instance it isn't a closed system, and the wort isn't water. But hey, we aren't curing cancer here, we're making beer.
So we already calculated what the answer would be ignoring the effect of latent heat absorption from one gallon of water going from solid to liquid state and that was 155 F. So if we can calculate the amount of energy in joules absorbed during this change of state then calculate how much that amount of joules absorbed from the whole volume of 4 gallons will drop the temp we should get an approximate answer.
So as can be easily looked up, the latent heat for the fusion of water is 334 kj/kg:
1 gallon x 3.8 kg/gallon x 334kj/kg = 1269 kj absorbed energy from melting 1 gallon water.
So now that we have the amount of energy absorbed but need to calculate how much this will drop the temp of the entire closed system. To solve this we need to use the specific heat of water which happens to be 4.18 j per gram per degree C. 4 gallons of water weighs about 15 kg so:
Delta (X) degrees C = 1,269,000 J/(15,000g x 4.18 j/g/degree):
Solving for X we get a drop of 20 degrees C of the entire system from the change of ice to water.
155 F = 68 C
68-20= 48 C
Convert back to degrees F and you get about 118 F
So actually this looks like it could work pretty well since I have been doing a 90 minute 4 gallon boil and with my pot, and boiling outside I've been getting about a gallon boil off. By adding 1 gallon RO ice plus using a water bath I should easily be able to get down to pitching temps in 1/2 hour or less.
Not sure what the hangup on adding Ice to wort is but it's just water