Frankly, most of those additions depend largely on your water supply. Gypsum, calcium, chalk, etc are used to harden and or soften the water and can effect alpha acid absorbtion from the hops and can effect the mouthfeel of your brew. None are absolutely neccessary, but all of them when used correctly, will very much enhance your brew. I wouldn't be afraid at all about using them. Homebrewers all over do so with zero problems - but if you're not comfortable, don't use 'em. Just know that certain beer styles won't be able to be emulated without them.
Irish moss... brother, if you haven't used it yet, you're in for a treat. If you make any type of beer that isn't totally black, Irish moss is your new best friend. Added to the boil, it attracts protein molecules that otherwise would cause your beer to not clear (or at least, not clear easily). If you make any lagers, pale ales, or brown ales, it's almost essential - that is, if you care about the look of your beer. If you're only concern is taste, don't bother. It won't change that either way!
Happy brewing to you!