most likely she is scared of bitter beers.
so stick with those with more gentle hop profiles.
thinking, Irish Red ale, 60 schilling, mild brown ales
also ease up on dry hopping, the nose can turn her away.
Now the bigger question? Why do you feel you hobby has to be enjoyed by your wife? Sure it would be nice if she encouraged it but part of being a couple is also being yourself. Brew beer you know you'll enjoy. Brewing is YOUR time.
I'm lucky, my wife really likes dark beers. Not so much bitter ones. (but slowly i'm getting her over) even made an IPA she enjoyed. I do tend to brew when she's not around. It's the mess in the kitchen she isn't thrilled about. Moving my brewing to the back yard helped a lot with that.
or, clean the toilets before you brew a batch. What woman is going to bust your balls for brewing if the toilets get cleaned before you do it. Next think you know, a few weeks go by and she'll be asking if you have time to brew this weekend. (of course she wants you to do the toilet but you still win)