don't assume I want a flippin' wheat beer because I have breasts!
A zinger that is! Somebody's gotta put it in their signature!
I've only read the first 4 pages of this great discussion (so far) but wanted to get in on the action! I think it's natural and okay for people to make assumptions. Assumptions are malleable first guesses, too me atleast. When an assumption/hunch is wrong and the person doesn't adjust their thinking/actions to the facts it becomes chauvinist, racist, whatever. We all have prejudices, there's a great leap between prejudices and chauvinism/racism/etc. Since the OVERWHELMING majority of brewers are male it's generally a safe assumption that if a couple is at a brew event, the male is the brewer/more interested party in the hobby. I defend no actions beyond the initial 'mistake'. To take it further is just wrong, sorry you ladies have to endure it!
My local HB club founded in Aug 2008 has had 2 presidents, both female. However both have brewed exactly 1 batch apiece. The members of the club don't have a problem with female brewers/female authority, obviously. However we've had people get their panties in a wad (dang my sexist text) and not join because of female leaderships vailed behind, they're not even brewers. The members were like, Good Riddance! As the Laughing Gnome said, a brewer's a brewer's a brewer... or something like that!
I've often wanted to ask the moderators to put up a poll asking people to click through a couple of simple poll questions dealing with age, race, ethnicity, & perhaps faith. I would love to know how many people of those that respond are African American or the % of female respondents, etc. Think of Garret Oliver or Lesley Henderson and other minority brewing pioneers and the social tenor they've had to face, female and black brewers are simply a rarity in craft brewing.
So how about that poll moderator?
Sex M/F
Age 21-30/31-40/41-50/51-60/60+
Race Wht/Blk/Hispanic/Asian/Pac Islander/etc
Faith Athiest/Non-Believer/Casual Christian/Strongly Christian/Jewish/Muslim/etc
I would love to see something like this, especially in the spirit of the current Census year! I think some of us would be surprised at the info... or maybe not!
Schlante,
Phillip