Swmbo troubles.

[mmb]

Good, because that would be illegal

Depends on what state you live in...

To OP:

Sounds like a self absorbed musician and if it isn't about him, he has a hissy. I should know... I used to be one.

You guys need to get to consoling pronto because this is just indicative of a larger problem he has with you being your own person...

Or tell him to pull his head out of his ass. That worked for me.

 

[CodeRage]

Yank his man card.

 

[Pappers_]

Good, because that would be illegal

OMG I just spit my coffee out on the train!!!

 

[Yooper]

OMG I just spit my coffee out on the train!!!

Pappers, you've been having all kinds of problems on the train every day. One of these days, they're going to haul you off of there and lock you up in an aslyum. You're surfing HBT and laughing and spitting coffee every morning.

 

[IrregularPulse]

Good, because that would be illegal

hahaha good catch

 

[KopyKat]

Yank his man card.

Nah, he does not have one. The man card has to be earned. He still has his boy card or perhaps he hasn't turned in his baby card.

 

[Yambor44]

If you are still engaged and not yet married you need to really think about this before you do.

 

[Pappers_]

Ok, back on topic - Mosquito, as I wrote above, I truly hope things get better for you soon. Stress with spouse is very difficult and you ( and he) are in my thought and prayers.

As for the asylum, well, that's remarkably insightful! In her work, my spouse has been involved in involuntarily committing people to psychiatric hospitals - and frankly it makes me nervous.

Pappers, you've been having all kinds of problems on the train every day. One of these days, they're going to haul you off of there and lock you up in an aslyum. You're surfing HBT and laughing and spitting coffee every morning.

 

[DansBrew]

My wife got Me a setup for fathers day/my bday. She got Me 3 boxed kits along with your basic plastic stuff. She was a little miffed by how long everything took, the smell, and the mess. I made sure I cleaned it all up, and that usually keeps her happy. I made my last brew on a night she wasn't home, so that there was no time lost between us. If it continues to be an issue, ask yourself why he has an issue with it. It might be he wants more time together and doesn't share the same passion for brewing as you, or it may run deeper. I'm completely hooked on brewing, and I think I've done an ok job at not pushing my luck with it. its like anything else, there is compromise in everything.

 

[weirdboy]

Yeah seriously. If he's like this now, it's going to get worse once you're hitched. Then, you will be facing the realization that you'll be spending the better part of your life experiencing these strange mood swings.

If you quit brewing because your SWMBO bullies you, well I guess that's your business, but he won't just stop with brewing if you let him.

 

[HBRunner]

Yeah seriously. If he's like this now, it's going to get worse once you're hitched. Then, you will be facing the realization that you'll be spending the better part of your life experiencing these strange mood swings.

If you quit brewing because your SWMBO bullies you, well I guess that's your business, but he won't just stop with brewing if you let him.

Yes, if you quit brewing, he will just find somthing else to complaing and whine about....

Counseling definately.......if you plan on getting married or are married, whichever the case may be....

 

[Clayton]

boy this thread is a hot one growing fast. you guy are so chivalrous !
this poor brewing dame needs help.

really thoe this seems crazy to me!
I get geety when my wife bust out the Kitchen Aid
and I coulds care less if there is a mess I know it will be cleaned up
when she gets her domestic on and starts makeing pies and cookeys i love it

I would much rather her be bakeing or sewing cool stuff (she is an amazing talor & baker), then sitting on her ass watching Project Runway or her out at the bar with her single whore girl friends

so this dude needs a wake up call
what the hell would he rather you be doing?
just sitting around wating for when he need to do or want something.

 

[srm775]

maybe you could try brewing naked.

It didn't happen if there's no pictures ...

 

[EvilTOJ]

I don't know why, but I just had a joke pop in my head; what do you call a drummer that just broke up with his girlfriend?






Homeless!

 

[Brewing Clamper]

So is it an attention thing? I can't imagine he just doesn't like you brewing. Like everyone else says, if you quit brewing, it won't be the end of your problems, plus you'll probably resent him for it. Try getting a straight answer from him. To put it delicately: "sh!t or get off the pot!" "Encourage me or discourage me?" You get what I'm saying? Anyway, hope you figure something out. Good luck.... oh and I'm sure brewing naked can't hurt. [/2¢]

 

[wildwest450]

That's why I have a SWMBO instead of a HWMO

Best post ever! Pics please.