I added more than the .82 gallons and it was more like a full gallon, which was to the top of the cooler. I ended up sparging like 6 times. I collected about 2 or 3 quarts on the first runnings (the mash seemed "think"). I used 1.25 qrts/lbs. Should I try a thinner mash for partials?
BTW..here is what I do and it works very well for me. It took me a while to tweak my approach based on my equipment. I will be upgrading to a larger kettle soon (15 gallons) and going to all grain, but until then, I have been very very happy with the results.
I have a 5 gallon ss kettle for boiling. I use a 3 gallon ss kettle/pasta cooker for mashing. It is pretty thick and holds heat well. I usually go for an amount of grains between 5.5 and 6.5 pounds. I use 1.25 quarts per pound of grain for the mash, and usually have to get my strike temp 16 degrees higher than the desired mash temp. I place my ss mash kettle in a oven that has been pre-heated to 170 then turned off. At sparge time, I heat the amount of water needed, almost always 3 gallons, to 172 degrees, then empty into a sanitized bottling bucket. The bucket is on a kitchen counter.
I then take the mash and dump them through the strainer into the boil kettle. I take the first runnings, put them back in the mash kettle then run over the grains again to get some of the husks out. I then place the strainer that holds the grains over the boil kettle, supported by two bar chairs. Picture the handles of the strainer sitting on one of two chair seats. This keeps the bottom of the strainer just above the boil kettle, and allows me to work solo. I then take the bottling bucket, and open the spigot about half way. This causes a splash pattern that covers about 80% of the diameter of the strainer. I sit by with a sanitized pyrex or pan and scoop a little water here and there to get some of the grain not hit by the spray, but only have to do a few times. This technique takes about 10 minutes, maybe a bit more, and allows me to clean up or attend to other things. Having the temp at 172 or so when I put into the bottling bucket allows it to be at 170 when it is used to sparge. This amount of water gives me just over 4 gallons in the boil kettle when I start the flame. Just enough to get as much utilization as I need, but not so much that boil overs are a pain. I usually have to top off with 1.5 gallons at pitching time which I can live with for now.
I didn't mean to go into so much detail as I am just repeating things said elsewhere on this site, but I just wanted to explain how I do it since your equipment and techniques may be different. Ever since using this amount of water and grain, and using the technique described above for sparging, I have hit my OG's dead on. The last 4 batches have all been at exact target OG's except one, which was only .001 off. I calculate my recipe's for 5.5 gallon batches, and usually have 5.2 or so in the fermentor when I shut the lid. The sparging through the bottle bucket has made things way easy, especially with the spray effect that comes from using a half open spigot. Using chairs to hold the strainer leaves me free to clean and keep SWMBO happy.
Good luck! I hope this helps in some way.
Broc