Wow, you are such a helpful group. I really appreciate the information.
I sanitized the yeast packet by putting some iodophor on a paper towel and wiping it on the outside of the packet in the area where I tore it open.
The yeast was from 2010, so maybe the most likely thing is fermentation did not begin for a long time, if at all, and bad stuff got a foothold in there.
If I forgot to sanitize something, I don't know what that was. Next time I will be more careful in measuring the Iodophor to make sure I get it right. I had not used a transfer hose or siphon equipment, just poured from the brew pot into the ferment bucket.
I made a 5 gallon batch in a 6 gallon bucket.
Do I really need a new bucket? Is bleaching it now and then later doing Iodophor near brew day a more certain way to get it clean? Is it best to sanitize on brew day, the day before, how long does Iodophor need to dry? Ha ha Aquaman, that's great!
I think I used grain. The beer store man called it malt, but it looked like what I would call grain, 4 types of brown organic material that he crushed in his machine and put in a brown paper bag. That is the stuff I put in the big teabag and "steeped." I will try to be more careful of temperature management as I am sure I made a mess of boiling, going off the boil, boiling again, etc.
We do not have a problem with mold growing in the house, but I see the point about mold still being present and always a risk.
Thanks again for all the help. I will get to cleaning all this stuff now.