I'd be very surprised if you could find a coffee maker element that would fit well in a rims tube type system - I've had a couple of espresso machines, and one had external elements (Gaggia Classic), and the other has a coil shaped element in a tank shaped boiler (Berezza). They also tend to have odd flanges and the like on them.
Water heater elements are a better fit to water flowing over them along a tube. They're also much cheaper than espresso machine elements (~$50-$100) and you can get them in your local DIY store, saving shipping - you shouldn't need to spend more than $15-$20 on a water heater element. The pipe is the expensive part of a RIMS tube.