(I too hate the rapt environment)One thing that was hard for me was to accept "close enough". I'm a weirdly geeky perfectionist, and 20 years ago the difference between 1.048 and 1.052 would have bothered me. But really, a difference of .004 is 'close enough' as our equipment is not lab quality or that precise.
I do use a Tilt (like the Rapt pill, but I hate the Rapt stuff so don't use it, including the temperature probe), but it's not even that I need accuracy/precision now- just so I know the beer is done. It doesnt' really matter to me if it's finished at 1.012 or 1.016- it's 'close enough'. If it's finished, it's not going to get more finished so I'm good with it.
That said, I do know my wort correction factor, and my refractometer and hydrometer generally match at the end of the brew day. My Tilt is calibrated then too. And I really that what the refractometer reads and what the hydrometer reads are different but still useful data points. The data points just let me know if the beer is finished, and the approximate IBU:OG ratio. And really, the beer is great.
One thing I came to learn about myself is that I’m ok with “close enough” because I can always improve if I know where I’m at, but I can’t stand not knowing if my measurements are reliable. I’m fine with getting 1050 on a 1052 target (not really, but I can stand stand it) but it’s incredibly frustrating to get one form of measurement that says I got 1048 and one that says 1052. I tried every device I could and at the end I realized that consistency and technique in using the tool is at least as important as how “accurate” the tool is. If my procedure for pulling a sample isn’t consistent I can still get 2 different readings from the Easydens and that’s about as reliable a measurement device as I can imagine short of true lab grade equipment. I buy almost all my gear used and got a deal on several tilts and now I use 2 tilts in the fermenter because Ive got them lying around and having just one and not being able to trust the measurements because it might be hung up on something drives me nuts!
So beware of thinking there’s something out there that will give you real certainty, it’s elusive and the path to find it has lots of tempting but probably unnecessary gear on it.