Doesn't matter when you add honey. If there's viable yeast, the yeast will ferment it. The only way it's not going to ferment is if there's no viable yeast (filtered out, pasteurized, using K-meta, Campden tabs, or whatever it is they use), or if they're in a situation where they're unable to ferment (exceeded alcohol tolerance, too cold, etc). If you're kegging, you can cold crash, and keep it cold after you add the honey so the yeast never get to work on it (but if you warm it up they'll go to work on it), or knock out the yeast some other way. If you're bottle conditioning you need that yeast active to carbonate, and the only way I know of you'll be able to do it is to add the honey, bottle, and then pasteurize the bottles at just the right time. And unless you know EXACTLY what you're doing, that's a recipe for disaster.
That said, if you're looking for honey flavor you'll get that whether or not it ferments if you add in secondary. If you want the sweetness too, you'll need to get it from the malt, or do one of the above.