I was thinking about it but I am just tired of dealing with this person. The beer that was missing isn't something super rare, but it is something I wanted. I was sent an Oude Kriek when it should have been an A&G batch 2.
Part of the reason it took 4.5 months is because the box was "lost" in transit. I did get a tracking #, and the box did have some movement but then it went dark. However, when he asked his post office for a "return" months later (I waited a while since this was my first international trade and I know that the box can take time with customs and all that) they magically found it. He then got all pissed about having to pay to ship the box back to me, giving me a "final offer" for me to pay half of the new shipping cost AND half of the customs fees he had to pay in order for him to receive the box that I sent. I filled out the customs form as he asked so I wasn't expecting (nor was he expecting) to have to pay more but it turns out he did. He also didn't tell me up front that if he had to pay extra costs to receive his box, that I would be responsible for half. I guess I could have created a bad trader thread then, but I do suppose there's some gray area there. I suppose I could be partially blamed for assuming that if anything went wrong once the box was shipped, that the shipper needs to see that it makes it, whether it was my box lost or his. He clearly didn't think so.
I did explain that if it was my box that was lost, it would be my responsibility to make it good but he ignored that and still expected me to pay half, which I did because I was tired of waiting and again, I guess there's some gray area there. I just assumed that he would make it good, just like I would have. I thought all of that went without saying.
So, that scenario combined with the wrong beer being sent really upset me. He even blocked me after confronting him about the wrong beer saying that what he sent was "enough." Plus, communication sucked most of the time and I just felt that there was no sense of urgency to see that his box made it to me. It took a lot of work on my part to see that I got my box.
Just a horrible experience.