I use an ale bucket with spigot, and a 3 piece airlock. I have brewed two batches now, and have never seen bubbles in the airlock! I must not have a good enough seal on the lid or something.
I know that fermentation is taking place though. The first beer went from an SG of 1.045 to a FG of 1.014 in 11 days. The second batch is sitting in the fermenter now, airlock is not bubbling, but I can see the little yeasty clumps rising and falling in the fermenter, so I know something is going on! The SG on this one, my first all grain batch, was 1.045. It is supposed to finish up at 1.010.
Like others have said, don't rely on the bubbles as an indication. Use your hydrometer!