I definitely did the first time; no denying that. After that, all I'm saying is I pre-heated every time and it didn't work out to ever be less than a 4 degree drop in an hour (which was my largest mash using an aluminum foil cover).
What the sticking point for me is, I think a lot of new brewers see generalizations like "use a cooler, it won't drop more than a degree or 2 and that's fine" and go that route... when in actuality "use a cooler and pre-heat it, cover the mash with foil, tape the top, wrap with a blanket, and [insert other helpful tip here]" is more of the reality.
So, rather than telling me my process was wrong and yours is right, it would help to offer up your process. It's a moot point for me now but it would certainly help others.