I hope you got the tri-clamp option for you Brewhemoth. You won't be sorry.
We do ~20g boils. That leaves ~6 inches freeboard in the kettle, which doesn't leave that much to play with during the steamy part (that's what she said). We shoot for 18+ to the fermenter to get 3 corny/ sixtels. I also have 1/4 barrels to keg in, so it's not an issue if we go over. My partner, (brew, not the other kind, not that there is anything wrong with that) is goal oriented, and loves to hit numbers. I am going to try to move to a more real-time approach, and adjust to what happens as we brew regarding efficiency, OG, hop additions, boil volumes, etc., so long as we end up with (at least) 18g to the fermenter, ~15 to the keg.
I have a couple, maybe more, of the jet tip burners, but haven't used them for brewing. They have a strange flame pattern, and the flame distance changes related to gas input, even more so than the Banjos, and they are bad enough. The 23+ tip burners send too much heat/flame around the sides when cranked, IMO and many others. Guys have been buying the 23+ tip burners and converting them to 9/10 tip burners because the 23 tip ones are 1/2 the price of the smaller diameter 9/10 tip ones (why, IDK).
I would either go with all standard Banjo/Hurricane, or try one of the smaller diameter, but same Banjo design, burners. These things are dirt cheap when bought as only the burner- agrisupply, restaurant supplies, etc. If you want to try something different, you could get a 3 ring burner. Some have individual control over each concentric ring, which is nice, and should have less flame wrap since there are more holes more spread out. There is nothing magic about Banjo style burners, though. They are all just a pipe with holes in them. Guys used to make homemade burners by drilling/cutting holes/slots in tubing or pipe. For a lightweight rafting stove, I am thinking of just drilling some holes in a thin wall stainless pipe, like how BBQ burners do.
I think we (those with 20+ gallon pots) are pushing the limit of direct flame heat transfer. I think adding a shield/shroud to get additional heating on the sides, as well as shielding loss from wind, etc., is going to help a lot. Our propane usage is out of hand, and even with a switch to nat gas, it will still be high, just cheaper with no refilling There must be a reason anything over ~15 gallons in the restaurant biz uses steam jackets.