You're very caught up on this idea that a philosophy or viewpoint is "right" or "wrong" and specifically that mine is "wrong," maybe even more than yours being "right." They're just different. You value personal liberty, and I value the well-being of the group. I think we both value the opposite as well, but the balance leans one way for me, and another way for you. That's not right or wrong, it's just different. And as such, I don't need to prove that you're "wrong," and in fact, I'm only saying that I think a better approach to life is to be concerned for the group.
You say that the main things the government should regulate are murder, rape, and (maybe) monopolies. But in different settings or cultures, those have different definitions. In our own culture and legal system, we differentiate between murder (premeditated, with "malice aforethought"), manslaughter, involuntary manslaughter, negligence, self-defense, etc.The definition of rape has shifted, especially in recent years. Monopolies are a natural market force, and they weren't always illegal.
All of that shifts over time and context.
You seem to think that I'm not accepting your stats and links about the evils that governments can and have committed. I agree Hitler was a bad guy and had policies that were bad for his people and the world. But at the same time, governments made laws outlawing slavery. So government can do harm, and government can do good. And mostly, government operates in the middle somewhere.
The idea that government is historically terrible is very hard to support. You have to go back to the beginning of recorded history, and then go back even more. You can show that some governments are "terrible." You can also show that some governments are not terrible. Because you can show both, then the "fact" or "truth" or "evdence" that you have to work with is NOT [government is terrible] OR [government is awesome]. You can make a strong case that Hitler, Stalin, and Mao were terrible. (Of course, you know that if you are the first to mention Hitler in an online forum, you automatically lose the argument, right?)
But it's harder to show evidence that "government" per se is terrible. It can still be your philosophy or opinion, but referring to it as "truth" or "fact" is weak. Insisting that I'm "wrong" and you're going to prove it doesn't make it so. You have shown evidence that many governments, are responsible for deaths. Hitler, LBJ, Mao, etc. I never disagreed that governments can cause all kinds of evil, and they have, and they often do.
But Government X being terrible doesn't mean that government as an institution is terrible. Even Gov A, B, C, D, etc. doesn't prove that as a fact, unless you look at every government ever. If the preponderance of government activity is to cause harm, then you can say that. But your links show stats over the last couple hundred years (I didn't see any pharaohs on the list, nor did I see GW Bush, Clinton, Obama, or Trump). You have to compare it against the good that government has done - but if your perspective is that government is terrible, then you can't logically do that.
If the question is how much involvement should the government have in regulating business, I think the answer is "enough to keep the most people safe, balanced against the ability of buyers and sellers to engage in commerce."
I don't think government should regulate what you do at home. Smoke & brew (great name for a BBQ place OR a cigar and beer store), lick your spoon, don't wash your hands, etc. I think the restrictions on home distilling are too restrictive, as long as you're not endangering anyone else. I would be in favor of more lax laws on how to produce and sell food, so that I could share some of my awesome food with the world (without the crazy investment necessary to follow the rules).
But I understand why there are rules, because, like I said, I don't lick the spoon at home, and would be sanitary. But I see others do it all the time. So the only way to protect me and other consumers is to have the government make a rule for commercial food production that says "wash your hands after you smoke."
And I have to say that if you opened a restaurant that said "We don't serve {fill in the blank race, creed, color, ethnicity, gender, orientation, or identification}, you'd have whatever stripe of bigot flock to it. That would be the new anti-whatever hangout. We've worked long and hard for equality. Literally so that people of all kinds and colors can sit in the same brewery and drink beer with ashes in it.
If nothing else, I do hope you'll moderate your opinion on discrimination. Liberty, equality, and justice should go hand-in-hand.