I need a sanity check....Long Story About the Wife

[Redlantern]

I dunno, man. Looking around, I'd say a lot of you gorillas married way up.

I know I did.

 

[Braumeise]

This is very enlightening... since I am in the rare situation to be sort of witnessing "Guys talk"

Here is my conclusion so far:

for all my life I was convinced that Guys do not have emotions like we do, that they fake love and affection only to get into a girls pants... that Loyalty and Trustworthyness is something they show off to their "mates" but it is nothing to bother with, when a woman is involved...

wow!

further:

My sweet solitude gets a hole different perspective...

There are obv. great men out There, but they fall for the wrong women...

very interesting read! Thanks everyone for sharing his thoughts!

My last word to OP:
No one can tell you, what to do. You must be ready to make a major change and if you are not, than you are lacking something that you yet have to find.
If you think fighting for your relationship is the right road to go, than do it, yet do it with all your heart and no doubt and watch out for yourself and how you feel with the progress in the first place.

Best of Luck to you, may what ever is best for you come out of this.

 

[Psylocide]

This is very enlightening... since I am in the rare situation to be sort of witnessing "Guys talk"

Here is my conclusion so far:

for all my life I was convinced that Guys do not have emotions like we do, that they fake love and affection only to get into a girls pants... that Loyalty and Trustworthyness is something they show off to their "mates" but it is nothing to bother with, when a woman is involved...

wow!

further:

My sweet solitude gets a hole different perspective...

There are obv. great men out There, but they fall for the wrong women...

very interesting read! Thanks everyone for sharing his thoughts!

My last word to OP:
No one can tell you, what to do. You must be ready to make a major change and if you are not, than you are lacking something that you yet have to find.
If you think fighting for your relationship is the right road to go, than do it, yet do it with all your heart and no doubt and watch out for yourself and how you feel with the progress in the first place.

Best of Luck to you, may what ever is best for you come out of this.

Haha.

 

[drainbamage]

My sweet solitude gets a hole different perspective...

Haha.

Oh good...someone else was That Guy so I didn't have to be.

 

[Homercidal]

oh good...someone else was that guy so i didn't have to be.

twss...

 

[Braumeise]

Haha.

yes, indeed

But seriously, after the "my wife watches TV" Thread... I am very happy to not share my TV other wise than with my Cats.

If I was married to any of those wives, the remote would have a secret function only reacting to MY fingerprints...

Guess the only thing I need to watch out for is NOT getting a crazy Cat-Lady Starter Kit

 

[GilaMinumBeer]

yes, indeed

But seriously, after the "my wife watches TV" Thread... I am very happy to not share my TV other wise than with my Cats.

If I was married to any of those wives, the remote would have a secret function only reacting to MY fingerprints...

Guess the only thing I need to watch out for is NOT getting a crazy Cat-Lady Starter Kit

You said cat in plural and combined with TV watching. Crazy cat-lady starter kit already happened.

 

[Braumeise]

You said cat in plural and combined with TV watching. Crazy cat-lady starter kit already happened.

Bawahha! LMAO... you are fkn' right lol

mmd!
I am a lost cause already... what else could I turn to other than brewing from there?
Maybe Moonshine... that would have been an option but I don't like any "hard liquor" other than scotch

 

[Homercidal]

Three ladies sitting around a kitchen table chatting about this and that, and one says,

"I have a nickname for my man: Dr. Pepper. Because he's dark and sweet and always wantin' to 'Play Doctor'."

Second lady says,

"I named my man, 7-UP, because he's 7 inches and always up!"

Third lady says,

"I named my man 'Jack Daniels'."

First lady says, "That ain't no soda pop, that's a Hard Liquor!"

Third lady says, "Yep, that's my man! A hard likker!"




You may now groan in discomfort....

 

[GuldTuborg]

You may now groan in discomfort....

Just like the third lady?

 

[Remmy]

Humbug.

 

[myelo]

Beer makin', wife cheating' ... look on the bright side -- when this is all over you will have the makings of a damn fine country song.

You'll need something that rhymes with pants.

 

[Zuljin]

Bawahha! LMAO... you are fkn' right lol

mmd!
I am a lost cause already... what else could I turn to other than brewing from there?
Maybe Moonshine... that would have been an option but I don't like any "hard liquor" other than scotch

So, you free tonight?

 

[Roland_deschain]

(Singing)
"You done me wrong, you lied to me.......you played around like you were free.......
Now I don't have to worry or tremble with feeeeeear!
Cuz after all the crying is over.........I make beer!!!!!!!"

 

[fuzzy2133]

(singing)
...
Cuz after all the crying is over.........i make beer out of the tears!!!!!!!"

ftfy

 

[HoppyDaze]

This is very enlightening... since I am in the rare situation to be sort of witnessing "Guys talk"

Here is my conclusion so far:

for all my life I was convinced that Guys do not have emotions like we do, that they fake love and affection only to get into a girls pants... that Loyalty and Trustworthyness is something they show off to their "mates" but it is nothing to bother with, when a woman is involved...

wow!

further:

My sweet solitude gets a hole different perspective...

There are obv. great men out There, but they fall for the wrong women...

very interesting read! Thanks everyone for sharing his thoughts!

My last word to OP:
No one can tell you, what to do. You must be ready to make a major change and if you are not, than you are lacking something that you yet have to find.
If you think fighting for your relationship is the right road to go, than do it, yet do it with all your heart and no doubt and watch out for yourself and how you feel with the progress in the first place.

Best of Luck to you, may what ever is best for you come out of this.

Tits or GTFO [emoji8]

 

[mongoose33]

Beer makin', wife cheating' ... look on the bright side -- when this is all over you will have the makings of a damn fine country song.

You'll need something that rhymes with pants.

He does, but he also needs a truck, a 3-legged dog, and a jail.



BTW, do you know what happens when you play a country song backwards? All your troubles go away!

 

[treacheroustexan]

Tits or GTFO [emoji8]

I'm not saying I agree with you... but.....

 

[Braumeise]

So, you free tonight?

Nope... work... but you look like a Cat... I consider conversing with you

 

[Braumeise]

Tits or GTFO [emoji8]

What do you need my tits for? I think I'll keep them, never know... and they make a nice cushion when falling from the horse... so.. uhm... so sorry...
I can offer you a home brewed wit beer?

 

[Braumeise]

I'm not saying I agree with you... but.....

lol... !

But seriously... they are not up for grabs and that is literally as well as figuratively true...

Sorry, Mate!

Unless you are feline ... or .... let me think about this issue...

 

[MVKTR2]

Sorry, I'm not reading 21 pages of 'my wife might be a **** with someone other than me' discussion.

No matter, either its an unlikely arrangement of events worthy of a sitcom or you've got 2 choices in this situation:

1 - Backup the phone data(assuming it isn't a company phone), lawyer up, and dump her
2 - Join the swinger lifestyle and cuckolding might be in your future
okay, there are 3
3 - see if she'll cop to it and try to work through counseling

In the words of Bobby Boushay, 'women is the devil'.

 

[MVKTR2]

Btw I love the options people toss out about 'beating the other guy up'.

The flip side of that is getting your own teeth kicked in. Violence is such a poor choice only small children and governments resort to it.

 

[Magnus314]

Btw I love the options people toss out about 'beating the other guy up'.

The flip side of that is getting your own teeth kicked in. Violence is such a poor choice only small children and governments resort to it.

HA HA HA HA HA! If only...

 

[Magnus314]

Wait, MVKTR2 are you a girl too? If so, then disregard that.

 

[gratus fermentatio]

Just in case:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/1893626318/?tag=skimlinks_replacement-20
Regards, GF.

 

[broadbill]

Btw I love the options people toss out about 'beating the other guy up'.

The flip side of that is getting your own teeth kicked in. Violence is such a poor choice only small children and governments resort to it.

Or killed!

It is interesting that the assumption always is that the jilted husband can "take" the other guy.

I wonder what their response would have been if their wives had an affair with another woman. Do you beat them up too?

Just goes to show that this isn't really about a broken husband-wife relationship but its about a man seeing his wife as property and punishing someone else for taking it from him.

 

[Braumeise]

Just goes to show that this isn't really about a broken husband-wife relationship but its about a man seeing his wife as property and punishing someone else for taking it from him.

unfortunately, there is some truth in this....
might not be the only motivation yet it is probably true and even though if only on a very archaic and subconscious level...

 

[Homercidal]

Or killed!

It is interesting that the assumption always is that the jilted husband can "take" the other guy.

I wonder what their response would have been if their wives had an affair with another woman. Do you beat them up too?

Just goes to show that this isn't really about a broken husband-wife relationship but its about a man seeing his wife as property and punishing someone else for taking it from him.

That's not cheating. They have another word for it. I think it's... "AWESOME"!

I guess it's only wrong if he can't participate.

 

[hunter_le five]

That's not cheating. They have another word for it. I think it's... "AWESOME"!

I guess it's only wrong if he can't participate.

SWMBO let me know early on in the relationship that she's Bi. I told her if she ever felt the urge to get with a woman that it would be fine, provided that I either get to participate, or at least hold the camera.