I have a lot of gripes with where I live but if you do choose to come visit we have several things you can do no matter what you're into.
If you dig the city go to DC. There's tons of museums, music, sports, memorials, etc. Balitmore is only about 45 mins away if there's no traffic. There you can see the national aquarium or see an O's game at a historical ball park.
If the city aint for you, as it aint for me, you can go west to Shenandoah National Park and drive on Skyline drive to see the Blue Ridge and/or the nation forest. There's a ton of small towns around that have shopping and good places to eat. There's also a few caverns you can tour as well.
You can go down to Occoquan, the town for shopping/eating, or the waterfront for sailing, tubing, etc. There's also places to go tubing on the Shenandoah river in the summer too.
Locally where I am there's a lot of shopping, bars, breweries, vineyards--lots of vineyards, small towns to check out, lots of hiking, fishing, camping, etc... You just have be willing to deal with huge crowds. Esp in the summer.
EDIT: Guess I"ll list the breweries since this IS a beer forum...
Victory is coming to Leesburg.
Crooked Run
Leesburg Brewing Company
Corcoran Brewing Company-- Also a Vineyard
Roger Knoell’s Barnhouse Brewery sells beers from his back yard one weekend a month
Adroit Theory
Old Ox Brewery
Lost Rhino
Old 690 Brewing
Portner Brewing in Alexandria
Port City in Alexandria
Prince William Brewing in Gainesville
Old Busthead
BadWolf Brewing in Manassas
Heritage Brewing in Manassas- right across the street from Badwolf
Sweetwater brewpubs-- there's 3 of them spread around the area. Excellent food- my go to eat out place.
Stone is opening in Richmond and Green Flash is opening in VA Beach.
I'm sure there's a few I forgot but yeah, we got breweries. Most of there are within an hour or so radius from each other.
In the winter there's several ski resorts that are within a day trip distance you can hit up. There's also ice skating, Ice sculpture tours at the national harbor not to mention gambling now that the laws changed in MD.
The beach is a few hours away too in the summer or even winter. The DE beaches are the closest to where I am but VA beach is 4 hours away too. In the winter the places are dead so it's a better time imo but in the summer VA beach is fun with outdoor concerts on the beach.
All-in-all it's not a bad place to live as long as you can afford the insane cost of living and the huge crowds and crazy traffic. I'm from here, which these days is rare to find a native, so these 3 drawbacks totally kill it for me but if you're visiting you can deal with it for a few days.